Don’t argue about religion because it’s fine: we’re fine; everything is fine.
Conflict in UU congregations is to be avoided at all costs. Backstabbing and politicking behind the scenes is to be preferred. Avoiding conflict gives the impression that everything’s fine. The UU rule is to pray well with others and any way of praying is A okay. UUs teeter on the brink of narcissistic nihilism. The problem is that if you don’t stand for something you’ll fall for anything.
UUs affirm and promote the free and responsible search for truth and meaning. The problem is that nobody wants to discuss what "responsible" is.