The Helpers - Congresswoman Nanette Barragan from California at the southern border

Mr. Rogers said that his mother told him in scary times to look for the helpers. Today, UU A Way Of Life is beginning a new column called, "The Helpers." This column will share stories of who the helpers are and where they are working and how they make the world a better place.

 

The helpers - How to be a helper to those who grieve during the holidays

Mr. Rogers said that his mother told him in scary times to look for the helpers. Today, UU A Way Of Life is beginning a new column called, "The Helpers." This column will share stories of who the helpers are and where they are working and how they make the world a better place.

Ways to Care for Grieving Friends and Family at the Holidays

• Be personal. Reach out in person, or on the phone, rather than online. While social media has opened more channels to express sorrow and offer condolences, it’s not the same as personal connection.
• Be specific. Instead of saying “Let me know if you need anything,” offer to put up lights, address cards, carry a tree into the house, bake cookies or take children shopping.
• Be inclusive. Invite those who are grieving to a holiday outing or gathering. (You might want to avoid using the word “party.”) If they aren’t feeling up to it, they can always say no, but they might want to be with others.
• Be flexible. Understand that plans might change at the last minute if someone becomes overwhelmed by the unexpected triggers of grief and can’t make a dinner or outing.
• Be mindful. Remember to remember not just on the holidays. On important dates like birthdays and anniversaries send a note, saying that you miss the person who died. Mention their name. Families don’t want loved ones forgotten.

From Clare Ansberry, "A Blue Christmas: Dealing with Loss During The Holidays" Wall Street Journal, 12/05/17

The helpers - Jahana Hayes: from the classroom to congress in 2018

Mr. Rogers said that his mother told him in scary times to look for the helpers. UU A Way Of Life has a a new column called, "The Helpers." This column will share stories of who the helpers are and where they are working and how they make the world a better place.

Jahana Hayes is a teacher from Connetticutt who ran for congress in 2018 and got elected. She is one of the helpers.

For a short video about Jahana click here.

The helpers - Grandmothers Bring Food and Comfort to Asylum-Seekers at Bus Stations

Mr. Rogers said that his mother told him  in scary times to look for the helpers. Today, UU A Way Of Life is beginning a new column called, "The Helpers." This column will share stories of who the helpers are and where they are working and how they make the world a better place.

From YES! 12/17/18

Every morning, Bonita Amaro and her sister Yolanda Sanchez arrive at the Greyhound bus station in Sacramento to greet asylum-seekers passing through on their way to sponsors’ homes across the country. The two women come armed with care kits containing basic necessities, as well as blankets, toys, and fresh, warm foods, such as the burritos and sandwiches that Sanchez prepares.

“They have so much dignity, so much gratitude. We get hugs, ‘Dios te bendiga, God bless you,’” Amaro says of the asylum-seekers. “In that moment, we are not Republican or Democrat. Not religious. We don’t talk politics with them. We’re just humanitarians.”

These tías, abuelas, and other advocates call themselves the Overground Railroad. And just as sisters Amaro and Sanchez are doing in Sacramento, each day dozens of them show up at Greyhound bus stations in far-flung connecting cities where asylum-seekers, released from detention, are making their way across the country to sponsors’ homes. With grandmotherly gentleness, often speaking in a familiar language, these volunteers are waiting.

Overground Railroad, a reference to Harriet Tubman’s Underground Railroad, is an offshoot project of Grannies Respond/Abuelas Responden, which emerged this summer when a caravan of grandmother activistsjourneyed from New York to the southern U.S. border to bring comfort to asylum-seekers there—and attention to their plight. They protested and demonstrated in cities along their 2,000-mile route. By the time they reached McAllen, Texas, the number of caravanning “grandmothers” had swelled to more than 200. The idea to provide ongoing support as asylum-seekers transition to sponsor homes grew from that.

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