Sunday, August 10, 2014

Legal and ethical can be two different things

Last month, July, 2014, the theme of the month was the second principle of Unitarian Universalism, "justice, equity, and compassion" and some of the articles dealt with the distinction between justice and equity. They are not always the same thing.

Tonight, Sunday, August 10, 2014, I did two important things among many: finished the draft of the book, "Justice, Equity, and Compassion In Human Relations: The Second Principle of Unitarian Universalism" which consists of 11 reflections on the second principle with discussion questions for personal consideration or group discussion. PDF copies are available free now to anyone who requests one by sending me an email at davidgmarkham@gmail.com, and soft paper back copies will be available in a week at Amazon.com for $9.95.

The second thing I did was watch The Company Men on streaming Netflix starring Ben Affeck, Tommy Lee Jones, and Chris Cooper and there is a great scene where the Tommy Lee Jones character, Gene McClary, confronts the human resources staff and attorneys about the proposed lay offs making a distinction about "legal" and "ethical".

Story of the day – Keeping the world safe from terrorists

     “I don’t believe in this climate change stuff,” said my CPA, Al, when I took in my taxes. “You can’t convince me.”
     
Well, you’re  a  CPA, I thought to myself. Good with numbers in little boxes and adding up columns of figures, but when it comes to wisdom, life, still a child. And I wondered about people whose lives are made up of rules and regulations, yes and no answers, they know the trees,  but  don’t understand the forest that they are standing in.
    
 Is this the time to share my views or change the subject? I changed the subject. Not the time to review the scientific evidence with his mind already made up. He did complain about the unusual cold, rainy summer we’ve been having which has prevented him from enjoying his cottage and his boat. But weather is not the same thing necessarily as climate change so I didn’t go there.
     
But I had to wonder how a smart guy, a professional man, like Al could be so ignorant of bigger things? He’s used to working with immediate detail in the relatively short term of a year or two and beyond that he couldn’t be bothered. Bigger questions of a more philosophical nature seemed to make him anxious and awkward and out of his element.
     
Let it go, I counseled myself. All you need is your taxes done. You got an extension so get them in by the August 15th deadline. Al is good at this. Accentuate the positive and minimize the negative. You need him for his professional services not for his opinions on climate change.

     So we chatted about the weather, sports, music, books, and I left. I left feeling relieved I’d got my taxes done, but uneasy about our lack of agreement about climate change. What good is it to pay your taxes with the world heading in the direction it is going in? What will be the state of our country and world 100 years from now, the world of my grandchildren and great grandchildren? I’ll be gone. It will be their problem, but one I helped to create. I did make my small contribution though to fund the next billion dollar Lockheed F-35 stealth jet fighter to keep us safe from terrorists.

Media literacy and critical thinking can save the world

     In Chapter 3 of the Green Boat, entitled “Our Foundering Ship of State”,  Mary Pipher describes some of the dysfunctional aspects of our democracy. There are many factors that contribute to this dysfunction and they all can be related to the Unitarian Universalist forth principle, “a free and responsible search for truth and meaning,” because this dysfunction can be attributed to the opposite of that principle, namely, irresponsible spreading of disinformation and a failure to name what appears to be the truth because it is opposed to vested interests.
     
Pipher cites a professor from Stanford, Robert Proctor, who coined a new term, “agnotology” for the study of ignorance deliberately manufactured because of political considerations. George Orwell in his book, 1984, called it “newspeak”. In our every day, colloquial conversations, we might describe it as “double talk,” “spin,”, or the more pedestrian, “bull shit.” Pipher quotes Proctor as saying in a 2009 interview in Wired magazine, “People always assume that if they don’t know something, it’s because they haven’t paid attention or haven’t figured it out. But ignorance also comes from people literally suppressing truth – or drowning it out – or trying to make it so confusing that people stop caring about what’s true and what’s not.” P.59
    
 In psychotherapy we often describe the marginalization of local knowledge by oppressive, dominating authority figures as “silencing.” People are made to feel that they are stupid, or their beliefs and opinions are not welcome, and the tactics of silencing are too numerous to describe here, but the most prevalent is those in power simply ignoring what marginalized people have to say. If that doesn’t work some form of mockery and ridicule is used, and if that doesn’t work some more aggressive, hostile attack will be employed. History is full of examples of people who engaged in a free and responsible search for truth and meaning that threatened the power structure of the time, the so called “dominant discourse,” who were killed or otherwise significantly punished to coerce their silence and eliminate the perceived threat to the status quo.

 Pipher goes on to point out that the media in the United States is now owned by a handful of corporations with their vested interests who chose what stories to present every day. As Pipher articulately writes, “Our media don’t necessarily tell us what to think but they can and do tell us what to think about, simply by what they chose to cover or ignore.” P.60  Or as I like to say, who gets to set the agenda, frame the debate, skew the conversation in preferred directions? This is the hidden power of the media as part of their editorial activity to decide what stories will have what priority on any given day. And being passive lambs led to the slaughter, American TV viewers, radio listeners, internet browsers tend to watch and accept whatever they are dished out. Sometimes more media literate viewers might question the content and format, but for the most part Americans are easily propagandized as evidenced by the billions of dollars spent every year on campaign ads, and other corporate advertising.  Pipher writes:

“Journalism uses the ‘Chad rule’ for topics. That is, don’t report on topics that don’t interest most people. The thought is – how many Americans really care about the African country Chad? And how many people are losing sleep over the earth’s current CO2 levels? This all becomes a vicious circle, of course. It is hard to care about what we don’t know about and difficult to inform people about what they appear not to care about.” P.61  

The first two principles of Unitarian Universalism are the “inherent worth and dignity of every person,” and “justice, equity, and compassion in human relations,” and neither of these principles can be effectively applied in a person’s life without an element of curiosity. Are we interested in the well being of other people, or only ourselves? There was a time what it was easier to be self absorbed and self protected, but since the mid 90s with the advent of the world wide web, and the global economy, this attitude of national protectionism doesn’t work anymore and especially in the age of the possibility of nuclear war and climate change we, homo sapiens, have become more aware than ever that we are part of a global community on planet earth.

Here in the United States we engage in ritual rather than truth seeking. One of the rituals that Americans have fallen into is that there are at least two sides to every story and political position and so Fox news crows about its news coverage being “fair and balanced”, and other media producers are careful to provide, ritualistically, “both sides of a story.” This ritual creates an assumption that there are “two sides to a story”, but are there two sides to truth, to scientific facts?  There is great confusion over the types of knowledge as outlined in the study of epistemology. When it comes to science or logic there are not two sides to a story. Water is made up of a molecular structure of H2O. 2+2=4. How could there be two sides to these stories? As former New York Senator, Daniel Patrick Moynihan, said “A person is entitled to his own opinion, but he is not entitled to his own facts.”

There is no scientific debate between evolution and creationism. There is no debate about climate change. Both evolution and climate change are scientific facts which are based on empirical evidence. A person could have different opinions about what evolution and climate change means for humanity, but a person can’t, in good faith, argue against the reality of their existence.  Pipher  writes, “For an honest analysis of a situation, we need the media and the talking heads to distinguish between experts and propagandists and between objective analysis and public relations.” P.63

Most Americans, unfortunately, are stuck at the lower levels of wisdom and faith development. Pipher quotes John Hansen, president of the Nebraska Farmers Union as telling her, “It’s virtually impossible to reason someone out of a position they were never reasoned into.” P.67 Most Americans accept what they are told, and never have acquired the skills of media literacy and critical thinking. If there is any doubt about this, just watch our political decisions and policy making. However we are at a point in our evolutionary history where ignorance and stupidity are dangerous and put life as we know it on this planet at great risk.

Unitarian Universalists while a very tiny denomination in the United States are at a level of faith development, for the most part, that provides an awareness of the interdependence of life on our planet that leads us to a role of enlightened witnesses. We can tell the truth even if no one will listen and they ignore us, or they are threatened and mock us, or they become greatly disturbed that their vested interests are in peril and they attempt to punish and even kill us.

Truth telling is a critical role without which nothing else positive can happen in an intentional, constructive way. Turn off your television, read the media critically, sift out the nuggets of wisdom, and share them with your family, friends, and neighbors. Together we can make a difference and save our world.

Saturday, August 9, 2014

Story of the day- What’s so funny?

     I was in the local coffee shop talking to some of the regulars not the brightest bulbs on the shelf or the sharpest knives in the drawer, but I thought they could handle my favorite joke so I said, “Hey what did the Buddhist monk say to the hot dog vendor?”

     They looked at me quizzically and bit, “What,” the three of them said in unison.

     “Make me one with everything, “ I said with a big laugh and they just stared at me. They didn't  get it.

     What?” one of them said.

     “Make me one with everything,” I said again tentatively hoping for a response because it was awkward.

     Trying to salvage the situation, I said, “And the monk gave the vendor $5.00 for a $2.00 hot dog and after a minute the monk said, ‘Excuse me, where’s my change?’ And the vendor said, ‘You, oh monk , should know more than anyone that change comes from within.” Again all I could hear was myself laughing.

     I thought to myself, Stage 1,2,or 3 according to Fowler’s model of faith development, surely, not a stage 4, 5, or 6. Stage 4s and 5s think this joke is hysterical, but below stage 3 they just don’t get it.

     Note to self: Be careful to ascertain level of faith development of audience before telling this joke in the future.

Can you hold two opposing ideas in your mind and still function?

As we continue our discussion of the third principle of Unitarian Universalism, “acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth in our congregations” using James Fowler’s stages of faith development as a model or a map we start in this essay with Stage 5 which is  "Conjunctive" faith (mid-life crisis) acknowledges paradox and transcendence relating reality behind the symbols of inherited systems. The individual resolves conflicts from previous stages by a complex understanding of a multidimensional, interdependent "truth" that cannot be explained by any particular statement.

The conjunctive faith of step five is the stage in which most Unitarian Universalists live. It is the stage of appreciation for the interreligious perennial wisdom drawn from the six sources. It requires a mature person to function at this stage because it requires the holding of two contradictory thoughts in your mind at the same time without distressful anxiety. As F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote in 1936 in an article in the Esquire magazine “"The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function." I am not sure I would put it this way. I think it is the test of wisdom and spiritual development at stage five to find people who are people of awareness and Unconditional love in spite of holding two opposing views in their minds at the same time with a degree of grace and contentment. This is one of the things that Unitarian Universalists are supposedly good at and maybe is even one of UUs defining characteristics. If this is true, it seems at least in our contemporary society, Unitarian Universalism will continue to be a small religious denomination because there are few people in our American society who have achieved stage five.

At this stage of faith, the appreciation of the seventh principle of Unitarian Universalism,” the respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part” is especially congruent with the third principle “the acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth in our congregations.” People at this stage are usually comfortable and curious about comparative religion study.

The sixth stage of Fowler’s model of faith development is "Universalizing" faith, or what some might call "enlightenment." The individual would treat any person with compassion as he or she views people as from a universal community, and should be treated with universal principles of love and justice.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fowler's_stages_of_faith_development

Stage six is the stage which Jesus and Buddha achieved as well as other religious masters and saints. I have momentary experiences at this stage but I do not stay there for any prolonged period of time. In A Course Of Miracles, there is a description of the “Holy Instant” when the individual becomes one with all. The person’s perception and awareness shift from the ego plane to the spiritual plane and that shift is what ACIM calls a “miracle.” We all are capable of experiencing these miracles and Holy Instants and if we can stay there for any period of time or frequently we might be considered miracle minded. Perhaps Mother Teresa, Dorothy Day, Martin Luther King, Jr. achieved this level of functioning. Undoubtedly there are other mystics and saints who have achieved this but we don’t know them.

In the book, The Dude and The Zen Master by Jeff Bridges and Bernie Glassman Zen Master Glassman writes in referring to the Dude (The Big Lebowski) “You might call him a Lamed-Vavnik. In Jewish mysticism, there are thirty –six righteous people, the Lamed – Vav Tzaddikim. They’re simple and unassuming, and they are so good that on account of them God lets the world continue instead of destroying it. But no one knows who they are because their lives are so humble. They can be the pizza delivery boy, the cashier in a Chinese takeout, the window-washer, or the woman who sells you stamps in the post office.” P60

It’s a comforting thought to believe that there are people around who are at stage six, but it takes a focused, disciplined effort to achieve universal level of faith development.

Aldous Huxley writes in the Perennial Philosophy:
“…the saint undertakes appropriate training of mind and body, just as a soldier does. But whereas the objectives of military training are limited and very simple, namely, to make men courageous, cool-headed and cooperatively efficient in the business of killing other men, with whom  personally, they have no quarrel, the objectives of spiritual training are much less narrowly specialized. Here the aim is primarily to bring human beings to a state in which, because there are no longer any God-eclipsing obstacles between themselves and Reality, they are able to be aware continuously of the divine Ground of their own and all other beings; secondarily, as a means to this end, to meet all, even the most trivial circumstances of daily living without malice, greed, self-assertion or voluntary ignorance, but consistently with love and understanding. Because its objectives are not limited, because, for the love of God, every moment is a moment of crisis, spiritual training is incomparably more difficult and searching than military training. There are many good soldiers, few saints.” P. 43

While Unitarian Universalism draws from six sources, it does not seem to have any recommended practices of its own other than those which might be based on the seven principles. I don’t know if Unitarian Universalism helps seekers get to level six. Some of us study and practice with A Course In Miracles while other engage in Buddhist, Christian or other specific practices, but other than insisting on Universal salvation, it seems that Unitarian Universalism has little to recommend itself other than its seven principles, but perhaps this is enough which certainly encompass the major themes of Fowler’s stage five and six.

Is there such a thing as a Unitarian Universalist mystic, master, or saint? Should Unitarian Universalists have some mystics, masters, saints? Are there UUs who point the way for spiritual growth for the rest of us? Maybe the closest we come to this ideal are some of the transcendentalists like Emerson and Thoreau. What do you think?



Friday, August 8, 2014

Story of the day -Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches can't help to resolve the problem of climate change denial

"I don't believe in denial," said Larry. "I think people know they just don't have the courage to face the truth so they repress it."

"Same thing," said Martha, "I don't care what you call it, denial, repression, avoidance, lying. Still the same thing. The ole 'out of sight, out of mind.'"

"Whistling in the dark, fiddlin around while Rome is burning, sweeping the dirt under the rug, letting sleeping dogs lie, blowing it off, ducking the shit," said Larry laughing.

"Let's eat drink and be merry for tomorrow we die. 'Carpe diem' as Horace wrote in one of his odes before Jesus was even born," said Martha.

"Listen to us now, laughing about the truth of climate change," said Larry. "I guess it is serious business. All the real scientists agree - the planet is getting warmer, the ice caps are melting, the seas are rising, the weather over the long haul is changing significantly.

"Remember Sarah Palin - 'Drill baby, drill!'? said Martha.

"I don't know who was scarier, McCain or her," said Larry.

"Right, well we got Obama. Has he been any better when it comes to the environment?" said Martha.

"For a Muslim, born in Kenya, and a 'nigga' what did you expect?" said Larry.

"That's not funny!" shouted Martha, "even if you are fooling around."

"Same mentality that denies climate change," said Larry.

"We have a lot of work to do," said Martha. "How do you convince the naysayers?"

"I don't know if you can until it affects them personally or someone they love," said Larry.

"Yeah, people are pretty selfish and shortsighted aren't they," said Martha.

"Look at me," said Larry. "What's for dinner? I'm hungry.

"Nothing for you until we solve this climate change denial problem," said Martha smiling.

"I'll guess I'll starve to death," said Larry.

"It would be the quicker way to go. Sooner rather than later," said Martha.

"But I 'm not ready to die yet," whined Larry.

"I'm not going to let you die before me, "said Martha. "How about I whip up some peanut butter and jelly sandwiches?"

"Yummmmmmmmmmmm," said Larry. "I guess I'll live another day to continue to work to resolve the problem of climate change denial.

Denial is not a river in Egypt but a defense mechanism that does not serve us well at this point in evolutionary history

Mary Pipher in the second chapter of her book, The Green Boat, named "Denial" uses as an epigraph a quote of Arthur Schopenhauer, "All truth goes through three steps. First, it is ridiculed, then it is violently opposed, and finally it is accepted as self evident." p.29

Pipher then goes on to discuss what she calls the "fog of climate collapse" making a reference to former defense secretary, Robert McNamara's comment about U.S. policy regarding the Vietnam war as the "fog of war."

Pipher points out that people do much better with problems that are immediate and concrete compared to problems which are more distant and abstract. Americans have been terrorized by their politicians since the end of the second world war, and the development of the military/industrial complex, with the idea of an external bogey man whether it be "duck and cover" as defense against nuclear attack with the development of bomb shelters during the cold war to the yellow, orange, and red terror alert color scheme developed by Homeland Security under Tom Ridge in the early 2000s after 9/11.

All people, but Americans especially, seem easily bamboozled by politicians and large weapon manufacturing corporations to believe that there is a terrorist, communist, hater of democracy around every curve and behind every tree waiting to attack and kill us. Hermann Goering, Hitler's right hand man, said at the Nuremberg trials after World War II:

"Why of course the people don't want war. Why should some poor slob on
a farm want to risk his life in a war when the best he can get out of
it is to come back to his farm in one piece? Naturally the common people
don't want war neither in Russia, nor in England, nor for that matter in
Germany. That is understood. But, after all, it is the leaders of the
country who determine the policy and it is always a simple matter to
drag the people along, whether it is a democracy, or a fascist
dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship. Voice or no
voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders.
That is easy. All you have to do is tell them they are being attacked,
and denounce the peacemakers for lack of patriotism and exposing the
country to danger. It works the same in any country."

It is apparent in our contemporary world that the people can no longer rely on politicians or corporations for the truth because their primary concern is not the common good but self interest. To whom are the people to turn for consultation, moral direction, ethical guidance? It is to educational institutions of higher learning and religion. What does Unitarian Universalism have to say about the human tendency to utilize the defense mechanism of denial? It says in its fourth principle that we covenant together to affirm and promote the free and responsible search for truth and meaning. We support each other in affirming and promoting the other 6 UU principles which make us less vulnerable to anxiety and fears and less likely to be manipulated in dysfunctional ways by people looking out for their own interests eschewing the common good.

Denial at this point in our evolutionary history about climate change does not serve us well and endangers not only our species but the species of all other living things on the planet. We need to emerge from our fog so we can see our future clearly and make informed choices.

My Kind Of Church Music - I Can See Clearly Now, Jimmy Cliff

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